we finally got married in the city hall on friday! everything seems to fall into place: we managed to marry in time to get r.s visa, we found a farm to volunteer on and a lot more..
it was a very simple but moving ceremony in the city hall with only my parents and a friend (as translator) present. we exchanged our rings and the civil servant said a few words.
we are planning to have a big party when we find our future house.
but that will take some time.